Andrews, Doris Holland

October 20, 1929 - September 13, 2021

Doris Holland Andrews

October 20, 1929– September 13, 2021

“I have considered the days of old and remembered the years that are past.”

Psalm 77:5

 

Blessed from birth with a light that shone from within, our beloved mother Doris Holland Andrews left us late on Monday, September 13, 2021, to join her cherished son, and our adored brother, Joe Scott Andrews in Heaven.  The wealth of spirit, sass, beauty, intelligence, and independence that served her well for almost 92 years will never be forgotten, and she will live in our hearts forever.

Doris was born on October 20, 1929, in Honey Grove, Texas to parents Joe Bailey Holland and Edna Blanche Holland.  The oldest of three, she was blessed by the arrival of sister Mary Ruth and brother Charles.  Her formal education began in Honey Grove and continued in Windom and Denison, Texas.  After graduating from Denison High School, Doris traveled 30 miles north to enroll at Southeastern State College in Durant, Oklahoma.

She made her mark at the college early on by being named president of Kappa Delta Pi, reporter for Cardinal Key, feature editor of the yearbook, honor marshal, and winner of the Eugene S. Briggs and Eloise K. Robbins awards. As a senior she was selected for the college’s Ten Pretty Girls’ list and graduated as the top honor student in 1953.   She was blessed with a winning combination of beauty and brains.

Doris married Dr. Charles Andrews in 1948, and although she began adulting as a typical late 1940s housewife, there was nothing ordinary about her.  She was smart and clever – a woman of independent means before the description became popular.  Not so much in a financial sense as both she and her husband were educators, but independence in the form of confidence that taught us we could accomplish anything.  Doris was a working woman who valued the opportunity to educate students, but her world revolved around family and friends.

Charles and Doris welcomed daughters Shauna and Crystal in Denison before the family moved to Oklahoma and built their Durant home in 1962. The couple welcomed son Scott in 1964, the same year Doris received her master’s degree from Southeastern.  In 1973, Doris became the family’s head of household – a role she did not seek out, but a position she took on with class and conviction.  For many years we were a family of five, but when only four remained, we were held firmly together by a strong mother who blessed us with the whole of her heart and soul.

She kept our family safe and secure through sheer determination with love given freely and life lessons shared. As a mother and mentor, she was simply the best.  Her love for us knew no bounds and she was always quick with a smile, hug, advice, or constructive criticism when we asked – or when we didn’t.  She was fair and forgiving, loving and loved, funny and vibrant.  As adults and parents, we have come to appreciate even more how special and amazing she was in all aspects of life.

She held a bachelor’s degree and a master’s degree from Southeastern State College where she began her career in 1956 as an adjunct instructor of English.  In total, she served 39 years before retiring as an assistant professor of English from Southeastern Oklahoma State University. During her tenure, she was recognized as a “Master Teacher” and known throughout campus as the best English teacher with the highest expectations.  Sigma Tau Delta members chose her as the university’s most outstanding teacher in 1994.  She was honored as a Distinguished Former Faculty Member at Southeastern’s homecoming ceremony in 2005.

She worked full time teaching English at the college level, was a divorced mom of three, a poet whose work was published in respected journals, a board member for the Oklahoma Shakespearean Festival, a teacher of Bible classes for Northwest Church of Christ, a member of Fortnightly and the PEO Sisterhood, and so much more.

She was a great cook who loved experimenting with new recipes and hosting parties.  Who could forget her pot of red beans with crispy skillet-fried cornbread?  Or her Swedish Tea Ring and warm caramel spoon candy?  And then there were the enchiladas and homemade waffles with chocolate syrup, and holiday tables filled with flowers and food.  Great food and friends made her home a welcome retreat and the door was always open. She was so much to so many and especially loved spending quality time –perpetual coffee cup always in hand – with best friends Erma Thomas, Sally Clark, Doris Smith, Lois Crow, and Gwen Hawkins.

In recent years brittle bones worked to wear her down but falls and fractures couldn’t dampen her spirit.  Several struggles combined, however, eventually limited her ability to travel, spend time with lifelong friends, and live in the comfort of her own home.  Time spent in hospitals and rehab was not how she would have chosen to spend time, but she always lived life to the fullest.

The past three years were filled with laughter and tears, with Doris adapting to and enjoying life in a Plano residential-care home close to Crystal. Photographs reflect a gracious, smiling Doris, no matter what the situation.  She quickly became a favorite of all and continued her role as “life of the party” until her condition worsened in July.  She was beautiful inside and out, especially joyous after having her nails and hair done.  Looking good often led her to feel better and that made us all happy.  Time together for us was longer than most and, for that, we are eternally thankful.

Doris was preceded in death by son Joe Scott Andrews and parents Joe and Edna Holland. Remaining to cherish her memory are daughters and sons-in-law Gregg and Shauna Andrews Steffen, Houston, Texas, and Jeff and Crystal Andrews Blanks, of Plano, Texas.  She will also be missed by grandsons Gregg Steffen, Jr. of Houston and Lionel Sullivan and wife Kasi of Frisco, Texas, and great-granddaughter Cadence Elise Sullivan, Haslet, Texas.  Survivors also include sister Mary Ruth Ford and husband Dr. Ken L. Ford, Jr. of Denton, Texas and brother Charles Holland and wife Barbara of Rockwall, Texas, along with nieces Lesa Ford More, Melanie Kahn, Jennifer Campbell, and nephew Dr. Ken L.  Ford III.

Doris Holland Andrews came from a long line of love and her family and friends will continue to be inspired by her memory and blessed by her life. She may be gone but will never be forgotten.

 

The family would love to share with you the memory of Doris Andrews at a Celebration of Life service on October 23 at 10:00 a.m. at Park Avenue Church of Christ, 3000 S. Park Avenue, Denison, Texas.  In lieu of flowers please direct donations to the Alzheimer’s Association @ alz.org.

 

Please leave the family condolences and share memories on this website.

 

Arrangements under the direction of:

Aria Cremation Service and Funeral Home

19310 Preston Road

Dallas, Texas 75252

(214) 306-6700

8 replies on “Andrews, Doris Holland”

Amy Hervey Cook says:

I am saddened to learn of Doris’s passing. She was a graceful, elegant lady, full of kindness. She will be fondly remembered by so many who love her.

Bennie Speaks-Tanner says:

Shauna and Crystal, so sorry to hear of your moms passing. So many wonderful memories of times spent with her throughout high school and then having her as a professor at college. The words are shared with us about her are beautiful and a wonderful tribute.

Pat & David Norris says:

Shauna and Crystal,
Our hearts are sad to learn of the passing of your precious mother. She was a such a beautiful lady, both inside and out, and she was so loved by all who knew her. We enjoyed every minute we spent with her at Southeastern, and we knew we would be greeted with her beautiful smile and a big hug each time we saw her. She was a “crown jewel” of Southeastern! Her love and laughter touched our hearts, and we treasured her friendship! We pray you will find peace and comfort in the days ahead in knowing how very much she loved you – she will always be with you in your heart with those precious memories. Love to you both and your family.

Paula Downs says:

What an awesome lady she was!! Sending prayers for comfort and healing in the days ahead.

David Whitlock says:

Professor Andrews was my freshman year English teacher. What a classy and sweet person and wonderful teacher. She inspired me to be a better classroom teacher and to be patient as she was with me. I admire her.

Patti Haggerty Galloway says:

CRYSTAL AND FAMILY, I AM SADDENED AT THE LOSS OF YOUR MOM. I REMEMBER HRT FROM NORTHWEST CHURCH OF CHRIST. SHE WAS A KIND SOUL. PRAYERS TO THE FAMILY

Mary O’Connell says:

I was one of Doris Andrews’ students in freshman English. From her and Lois Crowe, I learned that I would become a teacher but I would be a more compassionate and empathic one than either Lois Crow or Doris Andrews!! And I did!!

T. Gardner says:

Doris Andrews was a remarkable person! Left out of her obituary are her experiences at Freed-Hardeman College where she spent several years. It is a tale worth telling! My best wishes to her children, grandchildren and all who loved her. She leaves a hole that cannot be filled.

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